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My Ultimate Handjob Failure And The Stroke Of Genius To Fix It

Review Of The Handjob Fail That Could Have Ruined Everything And The Stroke Of Genius To Fix It

Today I have a personal story to share with you all.  It’s quite embarrassing and kind of naughty, but it’s Friday and I’m feeling kind of spunky, so let’s do this!

“My story involves a sexual blunder with my hubby, and how I intend to fix it.”

In my opinion, my hubby is the greatest man on earth.  He works really, really hard, and despite everything he has going on, he’s never let me down…not once!  When I need him, he’s there.

Lately, he’s had a lot going on at work, and I can tell it’s stressing him out a little bit, although he would never want me to know that.  He hides it really, really well.  But when you’ve been with someone long enough, you know how to read every minute detail of their body language, tone of voice, etc.

Because he’s so amazing, I got this wild idea to surprise him with something super sexy.  I wanted to wait until he got off work and then, when he was least expecting it, come on to him and give him an amazing handjob.

“Why a handjob?”

Because I wanted to do something different that would put me in control and focus all the pleasure on him!

It may not sound like much, but it was a pretty big deal for me, and something that caused a lot of anxiety even though I really, REALLY wanted to do it for him.  I think my sexual side has been repressed for a lot of years.  Probably because I grew up Catholic, and it was kind of a taboo subject.

So to make a long story short, touching a man “down there” makes me nervous because I’m not always sure if I’m doing things right or if I could be doing something a lot better.  I don’t want him to secretly hate the way I touch him, ya know?

Until now, I had never even given my husband a handjob.  Of course, I’ve touched him down there, kissed him down there, etc., but I’ve never actually just put 100% of my focus on giving him a pleasurable handjob.  So this was going to be my moment.  My rise to sexual stardom.  I was going to rock his world!

“And I fell flat on my face!  UGH!”

Almost as quickly as it began, I realized I had no idea what I was doing.  It didn’t take me long to figure out, I only had one handjob move in my arsenal.  Wrap my hand around his shaft and stroke him up and down faster and faster and faster.  As it turns out, that doesn’t classify as an “amazing handjob”.  Oh, and to make matters worse, I forgot the lube.  Oops – rookie mistakes!

In fact, I wasn’t even able to get him off.  He had to take over and finish things himself.  Talk about feeling like a TOTAL failure!  UGH!

He was amazingly reassuring and completely grateful and appreciative for the experience and my effort, but I could tell I didn’t rock his world like I wanted to.  I could tell he’s had much better handjobs in the past from other women, and that made me angry and upset.  Not at him, but at myself because I felt like a disappointment.  I’m his wife.  I want to be the BEST he’s ever had.  I want to pleasure him like no other woman ever has.

“He deserves it!”

Maybe I’m being too hard on myself, but I don’t think any woman wants her man thinking about an amazing sexual experience he’s had in the past with some other woman.  Am I right?  I want him to be sexually focused on ME, addicted if you will, and I want to make him feel so amazing that he’s always present, right in the moment, and never thinking about anyone else.

So I’ve made it my mission to improve my handjob skills.  I’m not giving up.  He WILL be getting more handjobs, and I’m sure he won’t complain…even if they’re bad while I practice and figure things out.  😉

When I was looking around for help to improve my handjob skills, I came across this review of the Stroke of Genius and picked up a copy for myself.  It wasn’t very expensive at all, and it looks like it’s exactly what I need.

From what the review said, Stroke of Genius is this new program that just came out by Cassidy Lyon and Michael Fiore.  It focuses exclusively on how to give a man an unforgettable handjob and has tons of different techniques. 

“Thank God for that!  I won’t be a ‘one stroke wonder’ much longer!”

Here’s the link to the review I read in case you also feel shy, nervous, or just plain terrified about touching a man’s private parts and want to check out Stroke of Genius for yourself: http://www.stabilitypact.org/stroke-of-genius-review-cassidy-lyon-michael-fiore-create-ultimate-handjob-handbook/

I’m going to try it out, and will keep you all posted on how it goes.

Updated: November 18, 2016 — 9:48 pm

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